Voices that Struggle to be Heard

By Rabbi Ellen S. Wolintz-Fields, WLCJ Executive Director

As we mark the anniversary of October 7, we are reminded that some wounds are carried not only in bodies and memories, but also in voices that struggle to be heard. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) to support survivors, honor victims, and unite communities against abuse. In this month of October, we are doubly reminded to hear the voices of those who struggle to be heard, because of their deep wounds.

The prayer Shema Koleinu—“Hear our voice”—asks God to listen to us, to receive our words with compassion. This year, that prayer feels especially urgent when we think about women whose voices have been silenced by violence, fear, and domestic and sexual abuse and violence. Too often, women are taught to minimize what happened, to protect others, or to remain quiet. This rings all too true, after the recent news of the Cornell University sexual assault case which centers heavily on the alleged silencing of voices and a perceived institutional cover-up.

Parashat Bereshit begins with a world brought into being through words: “Let there be light.” Creation itself begins when something is spoken and heard. Later, God asks Cain, “Where is your brother?” It is a question that reminds us that we are responsible not only for what we say, but for whether we are willing to hear the suffering of another.

On the third anniversary of October 7th, Shema Koleinu can become more than a prayer. It can become a commitment: to listen when survivors speak; to believe that their experiences matter; to make space for voices that have been pushed into silence; and to recognize that every person deserves safety and dignity.

May we hear the voices of those who cry out. May we have the courage to listen without turning away. And may the words we speak help create a world in which no one has to whisper, “Hear me,” before we finally listen.

Ken Yehi Ratzon – So May It Be!

Rabbi Ellen S. Wolintz-Fields
WLCJ Executive Director
ewolintz-fields@wlcj.org