Parashat Vayeshev 5783

by Rabbi Ellen S. Wolintz-Fields

In Parashat Vayeshev, we read about Joseph’s dreams. It is a wonderful Torah reading – which even has its own Broadway show and soundtrack. One might wonder – was it a good thing that Joseph told his family about his dreams? Maybe he should have shown a little bit more humility, if he realized that his dreams could be interpreted as him ruling over his siblings. Perhaps if Joseph were a little more humble and less boastful, maybe his family would have listened with more curiosity, and seen that their son/brother was going to achieve greatness, and not have been jealous. Or, maybe Joseph did not realize he was being boastful, and at that point, did not realize his dreams showed that he was going to rule his family. We do not really know if Joseph knew what his dreams meant at that point; could he have developed his ability to interpret the meaning of dreams later in life?  Did Joseph just share these dreams with his family because he was seeking attention? Was he oversharing? Think about this the next time someone tells you something;  you do not really know why they are telling you – is it oversharing? Seeking attention? Just wanting to share? Perhaps the person just wants a listening ear – and maybe that is what Joseph wanted also. Just someone to listen to him. Remember the next time you have a conversation with someone – be a listening ear – and be less like Joseph’s brothers – listen without jealousy or judgment. Chazak v’Ematz – Be Strong and Courageous!